The December Threshold: Quiet Shifts and the Courage to Deepen the Work

December acts as a strange threshold. The world outside is loud with holiday hustle and year-end demands, yet beneath the noise, there is an insistent pull toward stillness. It demands we look backward before we dare step forward.

If you follow my work, you know I believe deeply in intentionality. We don't stumble into impact; we build it. But to build forward effectively, we have to be honest about the ground we are currently standing on.

The Evolution of Harmony

Eleven months ago, I announced my "One Word" for 2025: Harmony. I wrote about seeking "agreement and accord" across the varied professional leadership roles I carry.

Sitting here in December, I can tell you with transparency: Harmony didn't look like a peaceful, easy blend.

Frankly, the deep challenges I navigated in 2023 informed how I approached 2025. This past year wasn't about finding an easy peace; it was about the gritty discipline of aligning actions with shifting realities under pressure.

Earlier this year, I completed a critical phase of interim executive leadership. I’m proud of the significant momentum we built during that engagement and grateful for the collective impact realized. As that specific consulting chapter concluded, evolving personal family necessities demanded I pause and re-evaluate where my immediate capacity absolutely had to be focused. Attending appropriately to those private priorities was paramount. Yet, the nature of high-level interim work is that one door closing often aligns with another opening. In that space created by refocusing, the next right opportunity to serve immediately presented itself, confirming that the timing was right to continue directing my energy toward these high-impact consulting engagements.

This approach is where real experience shows up. It’s about taking decades of experience in high-level guidance and strategy and applying them with focused intensity exactly where an organization needs them most, and then moving to the next challenge.

I’m grateful for the partners who value this model. It allows me to act as a high-impact guide for many, helping leaders navigate their own complex intersections of professional demands and human reality.

A Quiet Signal for the Future

This process of navigating real-world complexity while sustaining professional leadership has only deepened my understanding of the human element in organizational life.

It has reinforced my belief that to truly guide others through the fog, we need more than just standard leadership platitudes. We need deeper, more nuanced tools.

Because of this, I’ve quietly begun deepening my own wells this latter half of the year. I’ve committed to a rigorous new phase of development focused intensely on the nuanced dynamics of human behavior and what it truly means to thrive under pressure.

I won’t share all the details just yet, but know this: my commitment to serving leaders holistically sometimes means going back to the drawing board myself to ensure the toolkit I bring to your table is complete.

Looking Forward: The Significance of 2026

Now, I stand on this December threshold, looking at what’s next. I sense a distinct shift approaching.

I know this in my bones: 2026 is going to be a very significant year.

The foundation laid over the last few years - the hard-won ability to navigate uncertainty and embrace necessary evolution - was preparation for a bigger leap. The upcoming year is about amplification. It’s about bringing these new depths of understanding to the surface to serve you better.

The December Pause

Before the calendar flips, I invite you to join me in this pause.

Look back at the intentions you set last January.

Where did life demand a shift, and how did you respond with integrity?

The magic of December isn't in the celebration; it’s in the reflection.

It’s the deep breath before the plunge.

Here’s to closing a complex chapter 2025 with gratitude for the wisdom gained, and opening the next one of 2026 with bold intention.

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As August fades and September dawns, we find ourselves in that rare in-between - the denouement of summer and the on-ramp to fall. The air still carries warmth, but there’s an undercurrent of change. The days shorten, shadows lengthen, and the rhythm of nature shifts quietly beneath our feet. This is not yet the bold arrival of fall, nor the lingering fullness of summer - it is something more subtle, more liminal. And isn’t that exactly how mental health - and leadership - often works? True change rarely arrives in one dramatic moment. It happens in transition. In the slow turning of seasons. In the quiet noticing that things aren’t quite what they were, but not yet what they will be. For me, these last several months have carried that same spirit. Unexpected pauses. Redirections. New opportunities slowly forming out of old foundations. Coaching with executives who want to lead without losing themselves. Consulting with institutions navigating transitions. Speaking about mental health not as an “extra,” but as the foundation of culture and performance. And most recently, listening deeply to families who are navigating the hidden complexities of higher education. Like the shift from summer to fall, these moments don’t arrive with fanfare - but with a quiet insistence that things are changing. And that change, if we pay attention, is not something to fear. I t’s something to embrace. September is Suicide Prevention Awareness Month - and it’s worth remembering that awareness, like the seasons, is about rhythm and presence. It’s about pausing long enough to notice the small shifts in ourselves and in others. Asking the question. Reaching out. Choosing to walk alongside. As leaders, as colleagues, as friends, our work is not to demand immediate transformation. It is to honor the transitions. To model that well-being isn’t a side project, it’s the soil in which everything else grows. Summer may be ending, but what follows isn’t loss - it’s the layering of what’s next. The colors, the clarity, the perspective that only comes when seasons turn. So I’ll leave you with this question: What transition is quietly asking for your attention right now? Because in honoring it, you may just find the foundation for what’s to come.